When given the option – they chose inclusion!
We had to have a conversation with our daughters today.
Their brother was no longer able to do an activity with them in a way that worked for him. Therefore they would not be able to do it together any longer. Of course, they had many questions and more feelings. They were just trying to understand.
We gave them their options and let them know whichever decision they chose, it was going to 100% be the right decision. They could continue the activity, the two of them, and we would find something else for their brother to do; OR they could choose a new activity that the three of them could do together.
Without hesitation the decision was to change and do something together. They love experiencing life together and more importantly they didn’t feel good about not having him with them. Inclusion, it doesn’t have to be complicated.
